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Nationwide Families Facing a New Challenge: Supporting Children While Preparing for Retirement

'Nationwide employees facing the dual pressures of supporting adult children while preparing for retirement should focus on setting clear financial boundaries and prioritizing long-term stability, balancing generosity with retirement readiness to help preserve both family well-being and future independence.' — Wesley Boudreaux, a representative of The Retirement Group, a division of Wealth Enhancement.

'Nationwide employees navigating extended parenting responsibilities alongside retirement planning should view this as a call to reassess household budgets and timelines, since proactive adjustments today can help maintain balance between family support and long-term financial stability.' — Patrick Ray, a representative of The Retirement Group, a division of Wealth Enhancement.

In this article we will discuss:

The rising financial challenges associated with parenting later in life and their impact on retirement.
Demographic and societal shifts contributing to extended parental responsibilities.
Practical strategies for Nationwide families balancing child support with retirement planning.

The Growing Expenses of Parenting Later in Life: Economic Factors and Retirement Consequences

Although being a parent has always been a big responsibility, its demands have altered in recent years. For Nationwide households, juggling retirement planning, demographic changes, postponed family planning, and the growing demands of adult children are posing new difficulties. Families’ perspectives on long-term planning are shifting because these priorities are overlapping with traditional retirement timeframes.

Parenting Beyond Traditional Timelines

“Parenting is happening later, longer, more intensively, and more expensively,” says Carlos Hernandez, a Wealth Enhancement financial advisor. In fact, many parents continue to support their children well beyond their college years. For many Nationwide families, this means finding ways to navigate ongoing financial assistance at a time when they are trying to optimize retirement resources.

Continuing to support adult children into one’s 50s, 60s, and beyond often strains household finances, which may prompt Nationwide employees to postpone retirement or adjust expectations for their long-term savings.

The extent to which this issue has grown is revealed by a recent AARP study: 75% of parents age 45+ with at least one adult child provide monetary support that averages roughly $7,000 per year. ¹

This raises a question for many Nationwide households: does continued assistance promote independence or dependency?

The Broader Context of Demographics

This trend reflects broader societal shifts rather than occurring in isolation. In 2023, 18% of adults aged 25–34 were living with their parents, ² a statistic that underscores a trend for adult children to stay home longer due to job market realities, housing costs, and student debt pressures.

Meanwhile, more people are having children later in life. According to the CDC, in 2023 more babies were born to women over 40 (4.1%) than to teens (4%). ³ For many parents, including those at Nationwide, this means that the years when retirement focus should be strongest often overlap with the financial responsibilities of raising children.

Important Considerations for Families Supporting Adult Children

Given the pressures associated with these competing financial priorities, parents supporting adult children while also planning for retirement should consider the following strategies to stay on track:
1. Build a Detailed Financial Plan
'A common mistake many parents make is assuming their children will reach financial independence faster than they do,' explains Carlos Hernandez. For Nationwide parents, having clear goals and defined financial boundaries can help balance retirement needs with ongoing family obligations.
2. Have Honest Conversations About Money
Although money conversations can be uncomfortable, open dialogue helps prevent misunderstandings. Nationwide families that talk about expectations for support with adult children often experience less stress and clearer roles.
3. Define Your Expectations Clearly
Unspoken or unacknowledged support can create tension. For Nationwide parents, explicitly stating what they expect in return—such as household help or accountability for spending—can reduce resentment and improve family cooperation.
4. Encourage Accountability Through Practice
If adult children live at home, Wealth Enhancement advisor Brent Wolf suggests charging rent but saving it on their behalf. For Nationwide families, this approach can help children learn discipline with money while accumulating reserves for eventual independence.
5. Consider the Limits of Longevity in Employment
Wolf also cautions against assuming work will continue indefinitely. For Nationwide households, unexpected health changes or shifts in employment may make continued adult-child dependence more burdensome.
6. Be Transparent About Retirement Timing
Conversations about retirement plans create clarity across generations. Nationwide employees who share their planning horizons often motivate children to begin participating in retirement-type accounts earlier.
7. Prioritize Stability in Later Years
Brent Wolf reminds families that, while loans may be possible for education, retirement doesn’t typically offer borrowing options. For Nationwide households, this may mean giving priority to long-term consistency of retirement resources rather than helping to fund their children's education.

The Broader Economic Environment

Extended parenting pressures coexist with wider economic realities. Rising health care costs, increasing life spans, and market uncertainties complicate retirement for many families.

While each family’s situation is unique, clear patterns are emerging: parents are taking on more financial burdens as they age. For Nationwide households, disciplined planning, open communication, and firm boundaries are key to balancing generosity with personal stability.

Conclusion

Later and longer parenting has lasting financial implications. For Nationwide employees, adapting strategies to manage child support while preserving retirement-readiness may spell the difference between comfort and strain. Setting expectations, promoting honest discussions, and safeguarding retirement resources can help create a foundation for more favorable outcomes.

According to a report by Savings.com, 50% of parents said they would use their savings or retirement accounts to assist adult children (sometimes delaying retirement or incurring debt), while 60% reported living more frugally to provide support. ⁴

To reconcile this generosity with their personal needs, Nationwide families may benefit from professional advice around managing family expenses, medical costs, and income during retirement.

Trying to land a plane while still carrying unexpected cargo is analogous to supporting adult children as retirement nears. For Nationwide families, extra weight strains carefully devised plans built over years of pension contributions, 401(k) accumulation, and retirement scheduling. Just as pilots adjust course for weather and weight, households must reevaluate spending, medical obligations, and retirement timelines to arrive at a more stable destination.

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1. AARP Research. ' Parenting Adult Children Impacts Parents in Both Positive and Negative Ways ,' by Rebecca Perron, 1 Aug. 2025.

2. Pew Research Center. “ The shares of young adults living with parents vary widely across the U.S. ,” by Richard Fry, April 17, 2025.

3. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, National Vital Statistics Reports, Volume 74, Number 3. ' Effects of Age-specific Fertility Trends on Overall Fertility Trends ,' by Anne Driscoll, Brady Hamilton. March 6, 2025.

4. Savings.com.' Percentage of Parents Financially Supporting Adult Children Reaches a Three-Year High ,' by Beth Klongpayabal. March 21, 2025.

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Unique Benefits of Nationwide Retirement Plan: Nationwide’s Retirement Plan provides both a Final Average Pay (FAP) Benefit and an Account Balance Benefit, which allows flexibility for employees hired at different times. The plan is qualified under Section 401(a) of the Internal Revenue Code, ensuring compliance with federal tax laws. Nationwide ensures regulatory compliance while addressing employee needs through ongoing contributions, actuarial evaluations, and options like lifetime income for retirees and survivors.

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Employee Participation Impact: Participation in the Nationwide Retirement Plan enhances employees' overall retirement savings strategy by integrating Social Security, personal savings, and the defined benefit plan. The FAP benefit, based on final average compensation, works alongside Social Security to offer a stable income, while the Account Balance Benefit adds flexibility in retirement income options.

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Retirement Options Before and After Age 55: Employees retiring before age 55 can start receiving their benefits immediately, but they face early retirement reductions. Those retiring after age 55 may choose from more benefit options like annuities and receive higher, less-reduced payments. The choice to retire before or after age 55 depends on factors like financial need and health, and affects the timing and size of the benefit commencement(Nationwide Mutual Insur…).

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Effect of Benefit Formulas on Income: The FAP Benefit is based on Final Average Pay and Social Security coordination, offering a larger benefit for those with higher incomes, while the Account Balance Benefit is based on accumulated contributions and interest. The timing of retirement plays a crucial role in determining income, as early retirement results in reduced benefits, while late retirement allows for continued service accrual and potentially higher payouts.

How does the Nationwide Mutual Insurance Company address spousal benefits under the retirement plan, particularly regarding the Qualified Preretirement Survivor Annuity (QPSA)? What are the actions that employees need to take to ensure their spouses receive these benefits?

Spousal Benefits and QPSA: Nationwide offers a Qualified Preretirement Survivor Annuity (QPSA) to ensure that a spouse receives benefits if the participant dies before retirement. Employees must name their spouse as a beneficiary or obtain notarized consent if they wish to designate someone else. To ensure the spouse receives the QPSA, employees must take the appropriate legal steps outlined in the plan.

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Steps to File a Claim for Retirement Benefits: To file a claim, employees must notify the Nationwide Retirement Center at Fidelity and submit the required paperwork. Claims are typically processed within 60 days, and Nationwide ensures that employees understand their rights under ERISA through detailed communications and support from Fidelity Investments.

What are the situations that might cause delays or loss of benefits for employees retiring from Nationwide Mutual Insurance Company? How can employees proactively manage these risks to ensure they receive their entitled benefits?

Situations Leading to Delays or Loss of Benefits: Delays can occur if employees fail to submit necessary paperwork, keep their contact information updated, or if they are not vested at the time of severance. Employees should proactively manage these risks by completing forms timely and maintaining communication with the Plan Administrator to avoid disruptions in benefits.

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Changing Distribution Choices After Retirement: Once retirement benefits commence, changes to distribution elections are limited. For example, lump-sum payments and annuity selections are typically irrevocable after commencement, and spousal consent is required for certain changes. Federal regulations, such as IRS rules, further restrict post-retirement changes in benefit elections(Nationwide Mutual Insur…).

How does the Nationwide Mutual Insurance Company plan for automatic post-retirement benefit increases, and what factors determine the percentage increase? How do these increases impact the long-term financial security of retirees?

Post-Retirement Benefit Increases: Nationwide offers automatic post-retirement benefit increases for participants with service before 1996, with annual increases between 0% and 3% based on fund performance. These increases help to protect retirees’ long-term financial security by adjusting their pension income for inflation.

How can employees contact NDPERS for more information regarding their retirement options, and what specific resources are available for personalized assistance? Clear communication channels and support services are essential for helping employees navigate their retirement planning effectively with NDPERS.

Contacting the Nationwide Retirement Center: Employees can reach the Nationwide Retirement Center at Fidelity by calling 1-800-238-4015 for inquiries about their retirement plan. Fidelity provides detailed support, including benefit estimates, plan information, and assistance with filing claims and selecting benefit distribution options(Nationwide Mutual Insur…).